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40’s Coming Quick

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I had a conversation with a young woman who said she’s about to turn 30 and not looking forward to it…

Shit, I’m about to turn 40 and embracing every second of it. Life is all about perspective, and as a young black boy I was told about the high dropout rate at my high school, then the high murder rate for the brothers that looked like me, and then about the high likelihood that I would  either be in jail or killed by the time I turned 25… Throw in some crack slanging/gang banging friends, a touch of poverty, and a heavy dose of exposure to some racist police trying to catch me slipping every step of the way…   Let’s just say growing older is a gift.

I’m saying, if you don’t know how good life is then sit down with someone who’s been able to keep moving forward in spite of being exposed to a few real things along the way. Am I excited about getting older? That would be a resounding YES!!!!  I truly believe every second is a blessing…

On a side note, my New Year’s Resolution was to sit down and catch up with as many of my friends and family members (new or old) as I could. I love how Social Media has kept us aware of one another, but I’m old school, and think we need to venture out of cyberspace and do some real interacting with one another. So, if I haven’t seen you in some time, let’s start making plans to cross each other’s paths in the near future… because I ain’t coming to your funeral to boohoo over missed opportunities.  That just ain’t me.

Keep It Simple

Keep It Simple

Keep it simple. Keep your mind clear of the unnecessary distraction. Keep the noise levels in your life at a minimal. Keep your worries in check. Keep loving. Keep moving forward. Keep praising and giving thanks.

Keep it simple. Keep your mind clear of the unnecessary distraction. Keep the noise levels in your life at a minimal. Keep your worries in check. Keep loving. Keep moving forward. Keep praising and giving thanks.

Keep it simple. Keep your mind clear of the unnecessary distraction. Keep the noise levels in your life at a minimal. Keep your worries in check. Keep loving. Keep moving forward. Keep praising and giving thanks.

Keep it simple. Keep your mind clear of the unnecessary distraction. Keep the noise levels in your life at a minimal. Keep your worries in check. Keep loving. Keep moving forward. Keep praising and giving thanks. ~ Sean King

p.s. A special shot out to all the people defying the odds and proving the doubters wrong.  Keep doing it and don’t ever let anyone make you doubt yourself or tell you what you’ll never be. 

Sons and Dreams

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If my sons ever tell me their dream is to be the President of the United States, I’ll tell them to strive for something bigger. To think broader and more globally. To dream of becoming someone that lives with integrity without needing to sell an ounce of their soul.

I’ll tell them to dream not of positions of status, nor wealth, nor the types of possessions they’ll have, but to dream of what they will do to save a soul, to uplift a heart, to educate a mind, and to embrace a brother or sister in need regardless of country of origin, sexual orientation, or religion.

I’ll tell them to dream of being humble no matter how much success life grants them. To dream of being empathetic for those that are struggling no matter how much they believe success and failure is calculated based on one’s merit.  To dream of being both grateful and appreciative at all times.

I’ll tell them to dream of waking up and going to bed happy. To dream of having a life where their biggest source of pride is being surrounded by love, and people of good character.

Most importantly, I’ll tell them to fight for their dreams. To resist the urge to cut corners. To understand that even the means need to be approached with integrity or the ends lose value. To be faithful and God loving at all times, and to be as worthy as they possibly can considering the fact they will be men…

…and if they still want to be something as ordinary as the President of the United States, I’ll support that too – even though I know this life has so many more rewarding things to offer. ~ Sean King